Do you share all personal password with your spouse/mate? Like Facebook, cellphone, Twitter, personal laptop, etc?
Well, we choose not to hide anything except some of our annoying mind (sometime).
We do share all of our social network password and personal gadget.
We both are freely checking on each others cellphone. Anytime.. Though if we did, it means : I’m bored with my phone and I would like to see yours to see any messages and play games. And its not happen very often.
And PLEASE TAKE NOTES: WE BOTH ARE NOT IN-SECURED.
It is not like we constantly check it every period or time or something. We both have the access, usable anytime but almost never use it. I’ve change my password for security reason 1 time and forget to tell M, and he suddenly can not log in, he just call and ask casually. I said sorry that i forgot to tell and we both have no problem. He change his password at the same time and inform me.
Other case is he needs to unsubscribe from one mailing list in his yahoo mail account, he ask me to do it since he is too lazy to do it by himself. And i truly forget his password since i never use it before. There’s a paused and he sound hurt “You mean, you forget my e-mail password? You never use it?” I laughed and said sorry because at that time I already have too many free e-mail accounts (5!!!). But now, only 2.
Why do i have to write this and open up our own personal habit?
Few weeks ago, a male celeb/singer wrote on twitter that People who needs to check on their spouse’things/account are lame insecured people.
And few days ago, a radio announcer (forget his name&station) also says that people who needs to know/ like to check their spouse stuff are insecured.
And frankly i kinda upset with these guy”s statement. To share or not to share is a choice. That is why some people are get along well and some doesn’t. Willing to share his password doesnt make my man lame and insecure!! And checking my accounts once a while doesnt make him lame and insecured also!!
Anywaaaay, i wrote these tweets to the male celeb/singer. Don’t care if he reads or not, just to express my vexation.